1. Food
I put a call out to the San Francisco Parents of Multiples Club and asked them what their favorite gift was when they were a new mom. The answer was a landslide! The way to a new twin mom's heart is through her stomach. Nobody has time to cook when you are dealing with double trouble. Munchery is a delicious healthy food option here in the Bay Area. If you don't have access to Munchery, gift cards or a home-cooked meal always make great gifts. (Munchery, $50)
2. Night nanny fund
Now that mommy's belly is full, she needs her beauty sleep. If you can't come over and take over the night shift, help her out by contributing to a night nanny fund. Care.com has excellent options for trained professionals. Let them pull an all-nigher so you don't have too. Be sure to make sure the night nanny has twins experience when you start your search. (Care.com, $25-$50 an hour depending on where you live)
3. Table for Two
Wondering how in the heck she is going to feed two babies at the same time? Well, every woman has her secrets and twin moms have more than a few tricks up their sleeves. Table for Two is a lifesaver for all parents of twins! This secure, sturdy twin feeder saves you time, energy and sanity, and makes mealtime more comfortable for you and your twins. Whether putting breast milk into bottles or giving formula, Table for Two cuts the work in half! (Buy Table for Two, $269)
4. San Diego Bébé Twins Eco-Nursing Pillow
Seriously, how does she do it? Breastfeeding two at once is no easy feat. San Diego Bébé makes it easier for her to nurse two at once and still be discreet. This lifesaver is designed by San Diego-native Sandy Clark, who is also a twin mom. (Double Blessings, $70)
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5. Baby Shusher
Silence is a virtue most new babies don't have. When twins start screaming in sync, Mom starts loosing her mind. There's no need for Mom to worry about nonstop shushing anymore. The Baby Shusher does the work for her. This revolutionary new tool for parents uses an ancient, but doctor-tested and doctor-approved, technique to help soothe fussy babies and help them get some much-needed sleep. (Amazon, $32)
6. Magnificent Baby clothing
Most new twin moms break out in a cold sweat when it's time to pull the onesie over the head of a wiggle-worm newborn. Sleepless nights will lead to visions of nonstop snaps dancing in mom's head. I have to thank my mother-in-law for bringing the miracle of magnets into my life. Magnificent Baby uses magnetic fasteners to get babies dressed! No more dreaded night changings — simply open the footie, insert baby and the outfit practically dresses itself. (Magnificent Baby, $30)
7. Diaper Duty: Amazon Mom
When in doubt, get her diapers — or better yet, get her a diaper subscription. Twin mamas are on diaper duty 24-7. Look, poop happens and when it does you want to make sure mama is covered. If handing over a duffel bag of diapers doesn't seem thoughtful enough, how about getting her an Amazon Prime subscription? That way she can sign up for Amazon Mom, save 20 percent and have diapers automatically delivered directly to her door. (Amazon, $99/year)
8. Motorola MBP36S-2 Wireless two-way digital video monitor with 3.5-inch screen and second camera
Every breath you take and every move you make, mom will be watching both of you. The Motorola Wireless two-way digital video monitor enables her to always keep an eye on both babies. It comes with a second camera and two-way audio, so she can chat with her little ones. (Buy Buy Baby, $280)
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9. Skip Hop Duo Double diaper bag
Twin mommyhood can leave many new moms feeling more like a bag lady than a Bradshaw — Carrie Bradshaw that is. The Skip Hop Duo Double hold-it-all diaper bag is roomy enough for two babies and looks pretty stylish too. This diaper bag attaches to the handlebars of any double stroller. With a roomy main compartment, two insulated pockets and a cushioned changing pad, the bag has enough capacity to carry supplies for two or more children. It can be worn as a messenger bag or tote. (Amazon, $80)
10. Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Twins
Give the gift of a good night's sleep — believe me, she's going to need it. Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Twins was written by Dr. Marc Weissbluth, one of the nation’s most-trusted sleep experts. This book offers up a guide for sleep training twins, so that everybody (including Mom and Dad) will be rested and happy! (Amazon, $11)
11. Double Time: Twins Schedule Book
Twin moms are often operating on autopilot. Remembering who ate what and when is harder than you think. Double Time: Twins Schedule Book keeps track of feedings, diapering, medications, naps and other important information with easy-to-use, daily schedules designed just for twins. (Just Multiples, $13)